Támara Hill, MS NCC CCTP LPC
Támara Hill, MS NCC CCTP LPC
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ESCALATING DRAMA: HIGH CONFLICT EXPLODES INTO CHAOS AND COMPLEX PTSD
High conflict families can cause complex PTSD in some members.
Backbiting, manipulation or triangulation, intimidation and lies, deception, or experiencing cliques within the family, can all lead to relational trauma or complex PTSD.
Most people believe that complex PTSD is ONLY the result of a specific and one time traumatic experience -- such as sexual abuse -- that is hard to escape from.
But the reality is that complex PTSD can also be the result of years upon years of family turmoil, abuse, neglect, high conflict, and mistreatment.
In this video, I discuss how family related complex PTSD can lead to years of symptoms, relationship problems, and barriers in your life.
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#trauma #tamarahilllpc #COMPLEXPTSD
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
1:44 relationships become difficult over time
3:02 past experience within a dysfunctional and high conflict family
4:42 WHAT YOU ARE LIKELY TO SEE IN YOURSELF
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Відео

FIERY TEMPERS: DEALING WITH TOXIC FAMILY & EXPLOSIVE PERSONALITIES
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Anger management isn't something high conflict people (especially in a toxic family) know how to use. They tend to be hot-headed, selfish, and controlling. They also use the silent treatment to control you and everything around them. They want everything to go their way and they don't care what it takes. But if you ask these high conflict people if they are angry, if they are trouble-makers, or...
THE DEVEILISH TACTICS TOXIC FAMILY BULLIES USE TO HURT YOU
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No one wants to believe they have a toxic family and are being bullied by them. But when family members team up against another family member to accomplish a united goal, psychotherapists call that coalitions and alliances. Coalitions and alliances are "family agreements" that can feel like a "family agreement" to bully and intimidate you. Family bullying is toxic, dark, evil, and sinnester wit...
15 RED FLAGS OF EMOTIONALLY IMMATURE & CONTROLLING MOTHERS
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15 RED FLAGS OF EMOTIONALLY IMMATURE & CONTROLLING MOTHERS
RED FLAGS OF TOXIC FAMILY BONDS CAUSED BY TRAUMA: HOW TO SPOT THEM
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RED FLAGS OF TOXIC FAMILY BONDS CAUSED BY TRAUMA: HOW TO SPOT THEM
SECRETS REVEALED: SPOT GOOD AND EVIL IN RELATIONSHIPS |Psych Crash Course
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SECRETS REVEALED: SPOT GOOD AND EVIL IN RELATIONSHIPS |Psych Crash Course
SCARS EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE PARENTS LEAVE BEHIND |Psych Crash Course
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SCARS EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE PARENTS LEAVE BEHIND |Psych Crash Course
FAMILY ISN'T EVERYTHING WHEN THEY HURT YOU |Psychotherapy Crash Course
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FAMILY ISN'T EVERYTHING WHEN THEY HURT YOU |Psychotherapy Crash Course
WHY SOME GO NO CONTACT WITH THE NARCISSIST DARK EMPATH | Psych Crash Course
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WHY SOME GO NO CONTACT WITH THE NARCISSIST DARK EMPATH | Psych Crash Course
DARK EMPATH: A Deceptive Force In Your Life|Psychotherapy Crash Course
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DARK EMPATH: A Deceptive Force In Your Life|Psychotherapy Crash Course
THE PSYCHOLOGY OF BEING "BAD" |Scapegoating|Psychotherapy Crash Course
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THE PSYCHOLOGY OF BEING "BAD" |Scapegoating|Psychotherapy Crash Course
THE PAIN OF BETRAYAL TRAUMA & DETACHED PARENTS|Psychotherapy Crash Course
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THE PAIN OF BETRAYAL TRAUMA & DETACHED PARENTS|Psychotherapy Crash Course
WHAT YOUR ABUSER DOESN'T WANT YOU TO KNOW | Psychotherapy Crash Course
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WHAT YOUR ABUSER DOESN'T WANT YOU TO KNOW | Psychotherapy Crash Course
"BETRAYAL SYNDROME" | Why Deception Hurts | Psychotherapy Crash Course
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GANG STALKING TRAUMA: The Power Game | Psychotherapy Crash Course
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GANG STALKING TRAUMA: The Power Game | Psychotherapy Crash Course
Triangulation: The Signs You Can't Ignore | Psychotherapy Crash Course
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Triangulation: The Signs You Can't Ignore | Psychotherapy Crash Course
Sociopath + Narcissism: KNOW THE DIFFERENCE |Psychotherapy Crash Course
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Sociopath Narcissism: KNOW THE DIFFERENCE |Psychotherapy Crash Course
HOW TO UNDERSTAND PTSD & OBSESSIVE RESPONSES | Psychotherapy Crash Course
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9 Signs You're In A TOXIC FAMILY SITUATION |Psychotherapy Crash Course
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9 Signs You're In A TOXIC FAMILY SITUATION |Psychotherapy Crash Course
4 STAGES OF LEAVING TOXIC FAMILY BEHIND | Psychotherapy Crash Course
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HOW To DETOX & WALK AWAY FROM YOUR FAMILY | Psychotherapy Crash Course
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HOW To DETOX & WALK AWAY FROM YOUR FAMILY | Psychotherapy Crash Course
HOW TO IDENTIFY DARK EMPATH FAMILY TRAITS? |Psychotherapy Crash Course
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HOW TO IDENTIFY DARK EMPATH FAMILY TRAITS? |Psychotherapy Crash Course
Toxic Relationship With Your Parent? | Labels | Psychotherapy Crash Course
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Toxic Relationship With Your Parent? | Labels | Psychotherapy Crash Course
Why Does TRAUMA & GRIEF STAY WITH US? || Psychotherapy Crash Course
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THE TRUTH ABOUT MOTHER'S DAY || Why You Can't Celebrate It ||
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THE TRUTH ABOUT MOTHER'S DAY || Why You Can't Celebrate It ||
HOW FAMILY Estrangement AFFECTS YOUR LIFE |Psychotherapy Crash Course
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HOW FAMILY Estrangement AFFECTS YOUR LIFE |Psychotherapy Crash Course
The Cause of CPTSD In A Toxic Family || Psychotherapy Crash Course
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The Cause of CPTSD In A Toxic Family || Psychotherapy Crash Course
HOW CPTSD Changes YOU FOREVER ||Psychotherapy Crash Course
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HOW CPTSD Changes YOU FOREVER ||Psychotherapy Crash Course
Was My NARCISSISTIC PARENT BORN THIS WAY? ||Psychotherapy Crash Course
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Was My NARCISSISTIC PARENT BORN THIS WAY? ||Psychotherapy Crash Course
AM I BEING MANIPULATED BY ABUSIVE FAMILY | |Psychotherapy Crash Course
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AM I BEING MANIPULATED BY ABUSIVE FAMILY | |Psychotherapy Crash Course

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @MrDrudeezy
    @MrDrudeezy 4 години тому

    I would see on the family FB page, pictures of my mom, and family on a family reunion to Yosemite. As I would come to wonder.at home by myself and wondering where everyone was. In high school, I lived with my mom, aunt/sister, young female cousin, and at times my uncle.

  • @MusicAndReading
    @MusicAndReading 5 годин тому

    When adults never grow up, walk away.

  • @TheRetroWoman80
    @TheRetroWoman80 5 годин тому

    Thank you for this video, Tamara. So many layers and reasons for why these parents are dusturbed. The older I get, with more info and clarity from this awesome channel, I see that my mom took that generational route of continuing to parent the way which was predominant for ages. Not sure if she was disturbed though. I always place her in a grey area🤷🏽‍♀️ Religious justifications did not help with how she (and most of my family) dealt with me as a Highly Sensitive Person either. The whole "get over it" or "go pray about it" was never comforting to me. Though she wasn't anywhere near as bad as the extremes I hear about with these other parents, it was still tough for me growing up and dealing with, essentially, an emotionally immature parent.

  • @user-nt6ow2wj2u
    @user-nt6ow2wj2u 5 годин тому

    Love your advice brilliant therapy videos thank you and I hope that concussion headaches leave you, my mom had one so I get it happy weekend And baiters are real

  • @DottyGreenee
    @DottyGreenee 5 годин тому

    Im being stalked heavily. If you want to make ALOT of money.. try to help or befriend me. Theyll convert you and pay very well. I promise u

  • @Yanadew
    @Yanadew 5 годин тому

    Question? How do you forgive when the malice continues?

  • @NigelGupta-en1tu
    @NigelGupta-en1tu 6 годин тому

    The goal of the "intelligence-agencies" is to "create" complex-ptsd in the victim, with specific "triggers," that can be used "later" to "torture," "punish," "discipline" the victim, for "any" reason. However, the "state-of-trauma," necessary for this to work, needs to be "maintained" by the community. The victim is "literally" managed-like-a-zombie!

  • @minakshiviolin473
    @minakshiviolin473 7 годин тому

    Thank you for this video! Helpful to differentiate

  • @Yanadew
    @Yanadew 7 годин тому

    Mother’s Day is Hard! So many times, I stand in aisle of The HallMark Store, looking at the collection of Mothers Day cards, so beautifully written and arranged, and thinking that none of these cards express/display the personality or temperament of My Mother! I’ve bought these beautiful cards so many over the years, and present them to her with a smile. I also hope that it would change the coldness and detachment, this year she will be 80 years old, and it hasn’t happen yet! 😢

  • @benedettaandreoli7772
    @benedettaandreoli7772 12 годин тому

    This explains exactly what is going on with my family. I stopped some months ago to talk with my toxic parents. My mom always played the part of the victim...my aunt sent me a message saying that I should call my grandma because she (and all the other family members) are always asking about me. Funny how they started to "care" about me only when I moved to France, but for years they never sent me a message or visited me when I was living in Italy, nor since I'm here in France. I hate the fact that my aunt is trying to make me feel guilty saying: oh you know your grandma is getting really worse with her dementia. It's disgusting...I hate my relatives, especially because when I suffered from depression and my parents were treating me like shit, nobody asked me if I needed any help and they were all supporting my parents

  • @JKDVIPER
    @JKDVIPER 15 годин тому

    Oooh. I love these. Before I even listened I wanted to remind people that when we tell these stories, there’s a lot to be gained in after sight. 💯😉👈🏻”I had mentioned last week that I found a site, and the lady was rude n all that. I appreciated the DOCS advice and comment on that as well. But I noticed something. People are now acting as if, when you put a comment THAT RELATES to the author/creator/producer of the particular show/podcast/website, that you’re somehow IN THE WRONG, by guilt tripping you about your agreement? As if you’re manipulating the person? 😂❤this is absolutely weird. 😝🤟it’s like a new antisocial trend that haters and negativity poisoned individuals use as a way to START AN ARGUMENT. Some people come on UA-cam and Instagram just to confuse you. That’s new to me. Maybe borderline or narcissistic types. 😬🙏not quite sure, but has anybody else seen this kind of annoying trend? ☺️❤

  • @erarirez9680
    @erarirez9680 16 годин тому

    This.

  • @nataliebell6866
    @nataliebell6866 16 годин тому

    My mom infiltrates every area of my life...and smears me whenever she can. This is when restraining orders are helpful 👍

  • @gasnier2020
    @gasnier2020 21 годину тому

    Hi Tamara! I've submitted a form for a session with you as I'm in the Ocieania region but hoping to gain a session with you soon.

  • @truth4utoda
    @truth4utoda 23 години тому

    This was soooooo good. Thank you love! You know I can relate to this 😅

  • @Prd64twl
    @Prd64twl День тому

    Thank you for this very informative video.

  • @MasterCommanderBastid
    @MasterCommanderBastid День тому

    God Bless you Dr. Hill. You have answers. You restore my faith a little each stream I watch. 🙏🏾

  • @EthersMysticalChildTarot8014

    SA means Sexual Assault/R#pe

  • @TherapistTamaraHill
    @TherapistTamaraHill День тому

    The very active live chat box will be available for you to see within 12hrs of this live chat ending. Always the best part!

  • @LoonaMoonlight-bv2ri
    @LoonaMoonlight-bv2ri День тому

    Australia 🦘 is one of mine as well... 💜💜💜💯🦘🦘🦘

  • @LoonaMoonlight-bv2ri
    @LoonaMoonlight-bv2ri День тому

    💜💜💜💜💜 Breezy BeEazy 💯

  • @LoonaMoonlight-bv2ri
    @LoonaMoonlight-bv2ri День тому

    Breezy BeEazy The Wise Warrior is still here ✅💯💜💜💜

  • @rosaliaoliver-qv3gr
    @rosaliaoliver-qv3gr День тому

    ❤Thank you ❤wonderful❤ lady❤this video will help to see what to expect from a Sociopath

  • @citizenkang2524
    @citizenkang2524 День тому

    My mother would run me off the phone during crucial conversations, including job screenings and interviews.

    • @TherapistTamaraHill
      @TherapistTamaraHill День тому

      Oh my. You wonder if she knew what she was doing when she was doing it?

    • @livelystones7773
      @livelystones7773 16 годин тому

      Very similar situation. And when I was having problems at work and was looking for advice from her, which I never usually do. she suddenly flipped the conversation to when SHE was having issues at work years before and suddenly started reliving all emotions and dumping them on me - even though I’d already previously heard the same stories at the time. So not in an empathetic way (she doesn’t have empathy) but in a way to make the conversation all about her, like it was a competition, as per usual.

  • @rahkeembattiste5854
    @rahkeembattiste5854 День тому

    I ratter go homeless than go back to them.

  • @monicaperez2843
    @monicaperez2843 День тому

    It should be OK for parents to give up a child that doesn't fit in, whether it's one child, or all their children, preferably very young children. Parents and children, know early on when they don't click.

  • @ericagardens1234
    @ericagardens1234 День тому

    yes, this makes me think of kill you with kindness. i had a family friend since i was little, and it always felt as though she diidnt like me. finally in my late 30s i said why are we even friends? it got to the point where i didnt have peace in my life. she showed up when she needed a friend and i dropped everything to be there. but the whole time knowing she doesnt have basic respect for me, others and probably herself. its unfortunate. i said i cannot be her friend, at this time.

  • @aubrimarieee
    @aubrimarieee День тому

    i'm so broken that i had flashbacks about how bad my parents treat me and had to rewind the video because of my disassociation